Some kids start using drugs out of curiosity, just to see what it's like. Some
experiment because their friends are using drugs. Others think it proves that
they're mature or independeaant.
Teenagers are more likely to have problems with drugs or alcohol if they don't
have good social skills or confidence. On the other hand, a teen who's learned
to handle life's situations is more likely to be able to deal with things without
relying on drugs.
Guidelines for parents
Here are some ways you and your kids can deal with the subject of drugs and alcohol:
- Communicate. Work on listening to your teens. Talk with
them, not at them.
- Educate yourself. Get the correct information about alcohol, legal and
illegal drugs.
- Help your kids make sense of the lifestyles they see in advertising and
on TV shows. You can use this as an opening for talking about drugs and about
making decisions.
- Agree on some guidelines for how they should behave. Be prepared to revisit
these guidelines from time to time. Be clear about what will happen if they do
or don't follow the guidelines you set.
- Practice what you preach. Be a good example in the way you use alcohol,
tobacco, prescription drugs and over-the-counter drugs. This will show your teens
how to make decisions wisely.
- Help your kids to feel good about themselves. Praise their efforts.
- Encourage and take part in a variety of activities with your children.
- Let them know that it's natural to have problems and to make mistakes.
If you suspect a drug or alcohol problem may exist, stay calm
and stay connected. By knowing where your children are, what they're doing and
who they're hanging out with, you increase the chance they won't become harmfully
involved with drugs and alcohol. Talk about the changes you see in your child's
behaviour and explain your concerns in non-judgmental ways. If there is a pattern
of problems, you may need to get professional advice.
Additional resources
Information for Parents – Alberta Alcohol and Drug Abuse Commission
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