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MCFD > Adoption > Placing Your Child for Adoption: Where to Start |
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If you are Thinking of Placing Your Child for Adoption... Adoption is a lifelong experience for birth parents, adopted children, and adoptive families. Placing a child for adoption is an important decision, and it may be difficult and confusing. Birth parents have the right to carefully consider their options before making this important choice. No one should pressure birth parents to place a child for adoption. If you are considering placing your child for adoption, it is a good idea to contact one of British Columbia's licensed adoption agencies. Licensed adoption agencies handle most infant adoptions in BC. An adoption worker from a licensed adoption agency can discuss your options with you and help you make the best choice for you and your child. What to expect When you meet with an agency adoption worker you can expect to receive balanced, non-judgemental information. The adoption worker will discuss alternatives to adoption with you. For example, the adoption worker may ask if you have considered medical options. They will also ask if you have thought about caring for the child with support, or if you have thought about having the child cared for by family members. These questions are asked to ensure that you are making an informed choice about adoption. The adoption worker will explain the ways in which children can be placed for adoption in British Columbia:
If you decide to place your child for adoption If you decide to place your child for adoption the adoption worker will discuss your continuing involvement in the adoption process with you. When birth parents participate in the adoption process it helps ensure that adoption is carried out in ways that are best for the child. There are several important ways that birth parents can be involved in the adoption process:
You can also expect that the agency adoption worker will discuss your emotional reactions to placing your child for adoption. Placing your child for adoption can be a highly significant loss, and in grieving this loss you may experience a range of strong emotions. If you wish, the adoption worker can refer you to support services to help you with your feelings about placing your child for adoption. |
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